Dogs have long been known as humankind’s best friends, and the bond between dogs and their owners is a really special one.
Research by Canine Cottages shows that a dog’s heart rate increases by 46.2 percent when being told “I love you”.
This backs up what dog lovers have always felt in their hearts—our canine companions truly do love us.
But if you’re wondering some of the ways in which our pets can show us the love, then one expert has lifted the lid on some of the most common ones that you might spot when looking after your pooch.
Emma Scales-Theobald, canine behaviourist and resident dog expert at Canine Cottages, says there are plenty of things that can mean ‘I love you’ in dog language – and there’s an adorable one that your pet might be doing every day.
She said: “When dogs bring you their toys, they’re not just inviting you to play; they’re also sharing something valuable to them. This behaviour is a sign of trust and affection, particularly in breeds like Labradors or Golden Retrievers. Celebrate this gesture by engaging in play or praising them for their generosity.”
Similarly, the ‘play bow’—lowered front end, raised hindquarters, wagging tail—is a ‘universal invitation’ to have fun.
Emma explained: “When a dog does this, they’re expressing excitement and joy in your presence. Responding with play strengthens your bond and keeps your dog mentally and physically stimulated.”
If it seems like your dog can’t possibly get any closer to you when you’re chilling on the couch, this act of practically sitting on top of you is also a key sign of affection.
Emma noted: “Dogs are social creatures, and being close to you—even without direct contact—shows their trust and affection.
“For some dogs, sitting on your lap is their ultimate display of love, while others may prefer to lie nearby. Watch for their choice of proximity, as this often reflects their comfort level and love for you.”
And if you’ve been playing with or petting your dog for a while and stop suddenly, you might notice they begin to nudge you with their head or paws – another sign of love, Emma says.
She highlighted: “If you stop giving them attention, some dogs will nudge your hand or arm with their nose to encourage more petting or cuddles. This is their way of saying, ‘Don’t stop!'”
“A nudge can be playful, persistent, or gentle, depending on their personality. Responding positively to these nudges reassures them that their affection is reciprocated.”
