Embracing your pet can be a stress reliever for animal owners, but dog experts are now cautioning that hugging your pooch may not always be in their best interest.
Several animal behaviour professionals are advising people that hugs can be uncomfortable or even stressful for dogs. And one of these is dog trainer Alan Peiro, who recently posted a video on TikTok addressing the issue.
He detailed the eight signs owners need to look for when hugging their dog to see if they’re uncomfortable with the action. Alan stated: “Respecting their body language is more loving than forcing a gesture they don’t understand.”
He further added: “A hug is not always affectionate for your dog. Although for us it is a gesture of love, many dogs feel it is an invasion of their space. If they look away, tense up or try to escape, they are probably not enjoying it.
The expert also emphasised the importance for owners to understand their dog’s unique personalities and draw on previous experiences they’ve had with them.
If an owner forces physical contact with a dog that they know is not normally comfortable with such gestures, it may provoke unwanted defensive behaviours.
Alan suggested other ways humans can show affection to their beloved pups through gentle strokes on their back or ears or by engaging in long walks and playing together.
Eight signs your dog is uncomfortable when receiving a hug
1. Body rigidity – the dog remains still, tense, or with stiff muscles.
2. Tail down or tucked between the legs – a clear sign of discomfort or submission.
3. Ears back or flattened against the head – a sign of nervousness or fear
4. Avoiding eye contact – turns head or looks away, trying to defuse the situation.
5. Yawns out of context – not a sign of sleepiness, but of stress.
6. Repeatedly licking its muzzle – a gesture of appeasement or discomfort.
7. Attempting to move away or turning its body – seeking to escape the pressure of the hug.
8. Soft growls or whimpers – a warning that it is uncomfortable and wants you to let go.
In contrast, you should also try to look out for signs that your dog is looking for affection.
For example, your pooch may nudge your hand, arm, or leg with their nose or gently paw at you to get you to pet them.
Alternatively, they might lean against you, sit on your feet, or snuggle up close to you. Other positive signs are eye contact, following you around, bringing toys or climbing into your lap.
Every dog is different – so just make sure to keep monitoring their body language. If they show any signs of discomfort, try not to smother them.
We know they are adorable, but there are times our pets need space just like us humans do!
